This is all that's left of Hyram Wilder's old barn. It was old when our grandparents, Joseph and Elizabeth, came here in 1905.
Located well away from the small house, and all the other little outbuildings that made up Hyram's holding, it now shelters under the trees beside one of our ski trails leading to the Hidden Lake. A beautiful example of dove-tail construction is still evident. The space between buildings was designed as fire-safety measure. There's not a lot of water up there. Fire could spread fast, and with the source of night lighting being gas-lanterns and candles, fire was a constant threat.

There was a running feud between Joseph and Hyram -- evidently the Tapley encyclopedia of farming lore didn't have a chapter on fencing in livestock. Our cattle were repeatedly to be found in Hyram's fields. He threatened to sue. To show there was no animosity, he named his black heifer for Joseph's daughter, Violet. And asked Joe to help him write up his will. He could blend a mean whiskey, but he wasn't very literate.
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Brian and Nancy, at Hyram's old barn -- it was already close to 100 years old by this time. |
Hyram was a great help to our grandparents, teaching Elizabeth how to drive a team of horses, and helping with the stock and horses. He suffered a stroke, and was brought to Elizabeth's door. With a longstanding tradition of wearing the same clothes summer and winter, citing that "what keeps out the cold will keep out the heat," he wasn't someone you wanted to stand downwind of. Elizabeth refused to have him in the house until she had stripped and scrubbed him, dressed him in clean clothes and tossed his into the laundry before she tucked him into a warm bed. It didn't help. He passed on, and one of the neighbours commented that it was inevitable, given that Elizabeth had "washed off all that protective dirt."
Dr. Stewart, who built the Stewart Memorial Church in Dwight, had known the Wilder's before they relocated to the wilds of Lake of Bays. The minister would come up in the summer's and travel about, preaching from the doorsteps of their various households. I like to think of that, of the good preacher thundering out a sermon on hell and damnation, while down below, in the hidden depths of the spruce bog, moonshine whiskey percolated silently through it's still, and in the fields our cattle roamed a little too freely. Ah, those were the days...
I love your family history, Nancy! It helps us understand how we made it to where we are now.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Nancy. Enjoyed that little bit of folklore.
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